“What do you do when your partner is angry?”

That was the question I kept Googling while slowly losing myself in a relationship that didn’t feel safe. I believed it was my responsibility to keep the peace, to manage his emotions, and to stay quiet so the relationship wouldn’t fall apart. What I didn’t realize at the time was that anger was eroding my nervous system, my self-worth, and my sense of safety in my own body.

This blog is for women who feel confused, isolated, and ashamed for staying longer than they wanted to. It’s for those who have been taught to tolerate mistreatment in the name of love or culture. You are not weak for asking how to fix it — but the real question is whether this relationship allows you to feel safe, respected, and emotionally held.

If you’re stuck in a trauma bond and debating unblocking him, read this first. This article explains how reconnecting with a toxic ex impacts your nervous system, aging, mental health, and career — and why protecting your peace is essential.

Heartbreak hits differently when you’re a Punjabi girl far from home. Between cultural silence, unspoken expectations, and the weight of being “strong,” I found myself breaking open in ways I never expected — only to discover the self-love I had been chasing my whole life.